Monday, November 24, 2014

Preserving your Family History

We all have a family that stretches into the past. Our relatives and family history does not define us, but knowing and appreciating where we came from can help us understand how we got here today.  We can learn about traditions, interests, and stories from the past.
I took home boxes of photos and slides when my parents passed away.  Over time I worked on sorting and figuring out the identity of many of the photos.  Then one day at my brothers house he handed me boxes with more historical information. Then when I was in town in June he pulled out more boxes.  Then last year my cousin sent me a box.  I have become the family historian.  It is quite fun and interesting.
I started making calls and have learned from some long lost relatives about my family tree and online resources.  Every so often I delve into the boxes and try to learn something new.  I try to piece together another story or figure out when other relatives immigrated and how that plays into the decisions my great grandfather had made.  Here is a photo of my Grandmother Anna's family.  She is the young girl on the left. Her parents starting a soda pop bottling company.  I found on the internet one of the old bottles with their logo and I have notes with the recipes for sodas!

There are three main reasons to learn more about your family history.
1.  You may learn about family values and traditions you might still hold honor, or about some that have gone by the wayside that might be interesting to pursue.  We have photos of the my family annual Christmas Eve fondue dinners.. which I carried on for decades with my family.  I have relatives from Lithuania and Ireland.  I can see the resemblance when I look at the old relatives.  One photo looks exactly like my son!
2.  You might share interests with your past relatives.  You might see some old trinket that is on your mantel in an old photograph.  I have my grandmothers old golf clubs. 
3.  Learning the stories about your relatives can be better than a drama or a sitcom on tv!  And, these stories can be carried on throughout the generations!  My Grandmother was pregnant when she married my Grandfather!  I have the receipt from 1920 when he bought the furniture to set up their home.

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Reasons to Honor Veterans



Today we celebrate Veteran's from all the armed services.  My Dad served most of his life in the U.S. Navy... Most of my life in the Reserves.  Though I abhor war and fighting on any front, I know it is part of life for generations.  People have different values and often have to fight for them against others who truly believe that they are also right.
There are three reasons why I feel strongly that we need to honor those that serve our country.  First of all, they made a choice to be the front line for defense for the general belief for freedom in our country.  Second,y, they risk their life and health for that end.  And third, because they are not often compensated for all that they do and risk their life for.
I am grateful to live in this country and I respect my freedoms.  I dream of a world of peace... Not one where we all agree but one where we respect the opinions of others, do not live in fear, and power is not used to hurt others.
I celebrate my Dad as a Veteran but I know very little about his military career.  At his funeral a man walked in and said to my teenage son that Roman was by far the best commanding officer he ever served under.  That echoes in me when I think of Dad.
My Dad did PR for the Blue Angels for a year in the 1960's.